Tips for Working with a Child Who Is Usually Serious

Friends, Family and Home

  • Help the family to appreciate his more serious nature.
  • Involve her in play groups, and encourage friendships with many children.
  • Plan fun and light-hearted family activities and outings.

Learning, Childcare and School

  • Ask the teacher to involve him in puppets and dramatic play.
  • Read nonfiction as well as fiction and humor books to her.
  • Ask the teacher to assist him in joining groups for recess and play.
  • Ask teachers to make special efforts to hold and cuddle a baby.

Activities and Television

  • Involve her in activities with other children.
  • Read joke books, and watch funny movies and talk about how fun it is to laugh.
  • Provide games and materials that deal with his world and interests.
  • Watch science and history shows with her on television, and discuss the show's topics.

Guidance and Discipline

  • If he seems depressed, talk to him and ask him how he is feeling.
  • Give her time to explain and talk about her actions.
  • Let him know that you appreciate him!
  • Help her learn to name her feelings by naming them for her at first.
Determine your child's usual mood